Monday, February 14, 2022

Seminar / Workshop on God and Prayer - Marriage Prep Virtual Meeting via Zoom - February 19th, 2022 - Happy St. Valentine Day!

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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“From This Day Forward”

Marriage Preparation Course 2022

WORKSHOP ðŸ’˜ GOD ðŸ’˜
 LIFE ðŸ’˜ MARRIAGE ðŸ’˜ 
💘 FAMILY  
💘 PRAYER ðŸ’˜ TRINITY ðŸ’˜ SEMINAR 


👇 Link to Fr. Gilles' Power Point Presentation: 👇

👉  Workshop / Seminar on Prayer - February 19th, 2022 ðŸ‘ˆ


PDF Version of this Power Point Presentation 


INTRO of Father Gilles Surprenant 
by Bridget Bagshaw, Coordinator     6:30 p.m. / 9:00 a.m.


Father Gilles Surprenant in Capernaum, Galilee, Palestine

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 ðŸ’˜ WORKSHOP ON PRAYER ðŸ’˜ 

"The Trinity" by Andrei Rublev - 1411 A.D.


Russian icon 56" x 45" 

This is a 3-Hour WORKSHOP / SEMINAR 

We'll have actual prayer experiences...

... discussion, couple time, Q&A, & breaks...

Last year, afte we prayed a little with couples, they wanted more. Well, this morning we will spend 3 hours exploring prayer. 

You will have opportunity to express any doubts and ask questions. Let this Workshop / Seminar be an adventure; I am your field guide.

Violence, troubles, dangers threaten humanity. Our human condition causes us to suffer insecurities, fears, doubts, and concerns for the future. We endure the faults of others and dislike admitting our own faults. 

The awesome truth is that our Creator God loves us without limits. God gives us freedom because He designed us for friendship love. It is only in learning to love our Maker back that we will be perfectly happy. We can please others but we cannot “make happy” anyone; it is unfair to even expect a human, other  than Jesus, to try to “make us happy”. 

We're off!


WORKSHOP 
💘
 GOD ðŸ’˜
 LIFE ðŸ’˜ MARRIAGE ðŸ’˜ 

💘 FAMILY  ðŸ’˜ PRAYER ðŸ’˜ TRINITY ðŸ’˜ SEMINAR 


Please join me as we begin with a PRAYER          9:02

OPENING PRAYER 

LED BY FR. GILLES

💘 GOD ðŸ’˜ LIFE ðŸ’˜ PRAYER ðŸ’˜

“Lord, I can’t pray properly. 
I’m weak; I’m human; 
I’m fragile. I’m easily distracted,
taken into thoughts of myself and the world.
But you, Lord, lead me past that.
Help me to pray truly as I am. 

Help me to focus on the Father, the Son,
and You, Holy Spirit,
so that my soul may be opened,
and I can receive the grace that is there
for everyone in prayer. Amen.” 


Prayer published by C. Alan Ames inspired by St. Teresa of Avila

The Warning: Testimonies and Prophecies of the Illumination of Conscience.” By Christine Watkins, Queen of Peace Media, 2020. Sacramento CA

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OUR METHODOLOGY :

ANDRAGOGICAL MODEL

METHOD: LIKE WINE TASTING 
or LIKE BEER TASTING

OUR OUTLINE - in 4 segments           9:03

 (1) The human prayer impulse (2) Praying in common 
(3) Praying alone (4) Praying as a couple

WITH GOD... WE ARE ALL BEGINNERS...
WE LEARN BEST TOGETHER...

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Living Prayer 

By Anthony of Sourozh, Metropolitan. Living Prayer: The Pocket Library of Spiritual Wisdom. Foreword, p. 5. Darton, Longman & Todd LTD. Kindle Edition. 

Worship to me means a relationship. I used not to be a believer, then one day I discovered God and immediately he appeared to me to be the supreme value and the total meaning of life, but at the same time a person. I think that worship can mean nothing at all to someone for whom there is no object of worship. You cannot teach worship to someone who has not got a sense of the living God; you can teach him to act as if he believed, but it will not be the spontaneous attitude which is real worship. Therefore, as a foreword to this book on prayer, what I would like to convey is my certitude in the personal reality of a God with whom a relationship can be established. 

Then I would ask my reader to treat God as a neighbour, as someone, and value this knowledge in the same terms in which he values a relationship with a brother or a friend. This, I think, is essential. One of the reasons why communal worship or private prayer seem to be so dead or so conventional is that the act of worship, which takes place in the heart communing with God, is too often missing. Every expression, either verbal or in action, may help, but they are only expressions of what is essential, namely, a deep silence of communion. 

We all know in human relationships that love and friendship are deep when we can be silent with someone. As long as we need to talk in order to keep in touch, we can safely and sadly assume that the relationship is still superficial; and so, if we want to worship God, we must first of all learn to feel happy, being silent together with him. This is an easier thing to do than one might think at first; it needs a little time, some confidence and the courage to start. 

Once the Curé d’Ars, a French saint of the eighteenth century, asked an old peasant what he was doing sitting for hours in the church, seemingly not even praying; the peasant replied: ‘I look at him, he looks at me and we are happy together.’ That man had learned to speak to God without breaking the silence of intimacy by words. If we can do that we can use any form of worship. 

If we try to make worship itself out of the words we use, we will get desperately tired of those words, because unless they have the depth of silence, they are shallow and tiresome. But how inspiring words can be once they are backed by silence and are infused with the right spirit: ‘O Lord, open Thou my lips; and my mouth shall show forth thy praise’ (Ps 51:15). 

1* Adaptation of a talk given on the BBC in the ‘Ten to Eight’ programme first broadcast in 1965.

Anthony of Sourozh, Metropolitan. Living Prayer: The Pocket Library of Spiritual Wisdom (pp. 5-6). Darton, Longman & Todd LTD. Kindle Edition. 


PRAYER RESOURCES

👉 "Beginners' PAGE"

👉 Catholic Christian Tools  page

👉 ðŸ‘‰ HOME - https://gillessurprenant.blogspot.com/      


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A few additional texts... reflections.... 


We are created in the IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD...

God is an infinite "fire" of life-giving love...

Our "soul" / "spirit" in our "center" is a flame of

God within us... God is infinite... so there is in us

a living, dynamic flame of the infinite....


That is why we are never content with just a taste...

something in us wants to...

eat the whole buffet... drink the whole bottle...

completely consume what we love and desire...

A man wants to love every woman in the world...

A woman wants to love every man in the world...

which is why pornography is so dangerous...

not because sex is bad... no, God made us beautiful...

in us is a flame of the infinite, life-giving love-fire of God...


To touch high tension electricity wires is to "fry" and die...

electric power goes through transformers to make it safe...

Human sexuality must also go through a transformer to be safe...

To look at human beauty from a distance is a torturing fire leading to depression and death...

Marriage is the "transformer" that makes our intimate loving safe and life-giving and it takes place in the presence of God. 

For a detailed exploration of this theme, go to…

“LIVING IN THE IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD”

by Father Ron Rolheiser 

https://vimeo.com/showcase/8489527?page=3   

Father Ron Rolheiser’s website: https://ronrolheiser.com/ 

or see his books - contact:  Samia at   https://theologia.ca/ 

For the remainder of the workshop / seminar, see the Power Point presentation :


👇 Link to Fr. Gilles' Power Point Presentation: 👇

👉  Workshop / Seminar on Prayer - February 19th, 2022 ðŸ‘ˆ




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PERSPECTIVE - Victor Frankl's discovery about who survived and who didn't in the Nazi concentration camps - "Man's Search for Meaning" 

= the freedom we have to "choose" our interior attitude to life 

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Mass instructions & homilies 2016 to 2020

Audio recording 1-hour Intro to Prayer Seminar 2020-21

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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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© 2006-2021 All rights reserved Fr. Gilles Surprenant, Associate Priest of Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montreal  QC
© 2006-2021 Tous droits réservés Abbé Gilles Surprenant, Prêtre Associé de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montréal QC
 

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Tuesday, February 1, 2022

Note to Engaged Couples on Prayer from Father Gilles Surprenant, priest of Montreal & Animator of the Workshop / Seminar “Introduction to Prayer”

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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Note

to

Engaged Couples

on

Prayer

from

Father Gilles Surprenant,

priest of Montreal

Animator of the Workshop / Seminar

 

“Introduction to Prayer”

 

“God”, “prayer”, “spirituality”, and how these connect with “marriage”, “couple relationship”, “married life”, “family life”, “love”, and other dimensions of life are pertinent topics for you as you plan and prepare for the rest of your lives.

The presenters in this Marriage Preparation Program are generally couples but there are also two priests, and we all mention prayer and the importance of prayer in marriages that can be qualified as “successful”, “fruitful”, or “happy”. This is why we offer you this Workshop / Seminar “Introduction to Prayer”.

It is useful to “know” more about all those topics listed above, but the “fast track” to really making progress in those dimensions of human life is that of “experience” or “practice”. In other words, there is no better way to learn or make progress or have satisfaction than by DOING IT. So, we invite you to come prepared to participate in this workshop / seminar, and the more you participate, the more satisfaction you are likely to experience.

“Cacophony of voices” – this just means a jumble of voices, which is what happens when a bunch of people pray out loud together. The goal is not to sound perfectly in sync as in opera or a choir singing or a symphony performing. The goal is to move ahead together. It is a little more difficult online than in person, but just focus on the voice next to you at home, and do your best to “blend in” with the others online. We focus our attention on opening our spirit to God, and the other voices simply help us stay “on the path”. They help us move ahead.

“Awkward silences” – as we enter into various prayer exercises, there will be silences because silence is and has always been an important “medium” or “environment” in which to “encounter” God. If you are “plugged in” with technological devices much of the day, either for work or pleasure, you may find the silences awkward. Let the silence “befriend” you and just “go with it” … “go with the flow” … and in time you will find great peace and comfort.

The “quality of the presentations and materials” – we are all embedded in “Hollywood” culture, and we don’t realize how easily we go into “entertainment mode”. While it is fun to be dazzled by highly dynamic and innovative presentations, most of us presenters are really just ordinary folks who happen to love engaged couples and your wonderful life projects.

We are highly motivated to help you prepare well for the rest of your lives by picking up now some useful tools, practices, attitudes, and habits that will help you to grow into the man / husband / father and woman / wife / mother you deeply desire to be.

So, we ask you to soften your “critical senses and minds” and focus rather on what you can draw from what is being presented, and how you might incorporate that today into your life personally and into your relationship as a couple. With this approach, you will derive far more benefit and satisfaction during this program of formation, but more importantly, you are far more likely to build together a successful, fruitful, and happy marriage and family.

Let us pray for one another as we share this little bit of journey together. 

See you soon!




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Mass instructions & homilies 2016 to 2020

Audio recording 1-hour Intro to Prayer Seminar 2020-21

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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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© 2006-2023 All rights reserved Fr. Gilles Surprenant, Associate Priest of Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montreal  QC
© 2006-2023 Tous droits réservés Abbé Gilles Surprenant, Prêtre Associé de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montréal QC
 

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