Sunday, June 4, 2023

Christian Prayer – God’s Sacred History with Me

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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Christian Prayer – God’s Sacred History with Me


Prayer is simply visiting with God – the Creator of the Universe – who is always present. Jesus revealed God to be a Trinity, a Community of Divine Persons: the Father, the Son – who also became human through Mary and is known as Jesus – and the Holy Spirit. Here are the simplest steps for visiting with God in prayer.

PRELIMINARY NOTES FOR ALL WHO PRAY

1.      BUSY PRAYER IN THE DUTY OF THE MOMENT: Our life is complex in many dimensions. We can pray – visit with God – anywhere, anytime. CAUTION: Pay attention in the “front” of your mind to what you are doing to avoid injury… let prayer “happen” on the “back burner” ….

2.      PRAYER OF SILENCE: Friends of God find Him in silence, not the absence of noise, but in the silence, we learn to keep within ourselves, quieting our mind, heart, and spirit, like a baby in the parent’s lap.

3.      CONTEMPLATIVE NATURE WALK: Taking a leisurely walk in nature, without any errand to run, just for the sheer pleasure, and without rushing - can open us up to a moment of "awe" and "wonder", lift our spirit "into God" or open us to "sense" the "living presence of God" within us. Silence helps us "savor it".

4.      PONDERING THE WORD OF GOD: "Listen" to God as you slowly read Sacred Scripture, paying attention to the Lord, and personally "respond" to Him. First, ask the Holy Spirit to help. Later, thank Him.

5.      OTHER FORMS OF PRAYER: You can pray with Scripture, the Word of God in the Bible; or with the Mysteries of the Rosary; or at Holy Mass; or TO God WITH the saints to help you pray; or written prayers.

6.      PRAYER TIME & PLACE: Choose a time and place to visit with God by setting aside any other activity.

7.      IT IS THE HOLY SPIRIT WHO REALLY DOES THE PRAYING WITHIN US: Let the Holy Spirit carry you in the praying, especially when you are doing something else. At all times the Holy Spirit can give us the grace to relax and the Holy Spirit teaches us how to allow the prayer to “echo” within our spirit.

 

ACTUALLY PRAYING

 

8.      “BE NOT AFRAID!” God, revealed by Jesus of Nazareth, is a “community” of Divine Persons, the Father, his Son Jesus, and the Holy Spirit; yet a single Divine Being. God will ever remain mysterious. 

9.      DECIDE: Simply decide to pray, to take some time to personally visit with God.

10.  ASK: Ask the Holy Spirit to be with you and help you to pray, to visit with the Holy Trinity.

11.  SELECT: Choose the "prayer method" or "avenue" or occasion you want.

12.  ENTER INTO YOUR PRAYER METHOD: In silent prayer relax and rest in the Lord.
OR Select a
Scripture text and read slowly, “ponder” the words, let them touch your mind, heart, spirit.
OR Pray the
Rosary with Mary while meditating on the Mysteries of Jesus in the Holy Rosary. OR…

13.  “WORRY NOT – ENJOY!” You may notice worries, ideas, emotions, resolutions, anxieties, “to do” lists – just let them drop, and turn your attention back to your prayer… you can pick them up again later. Enjoy the presence and the love of God the Father, his Son Jesus, and the Holy Spirit.

14.  AT THE END GIVE THANKS: Say “Thank You, Lord… or Father… or Jesus… or Holy Spirit.”


Spiritual Prayer Exercise – Letting God Show You His Presence and Care throughout Your Whole Life

A good, holy, elderly priest – Fr. Walter Lallemand, a war veteran who as a recovering alcoholic was a man familiar with suffering – in February 1977 gave us young adults a prayer exercise to see our life like that of the people of Israel in the Bible. Like theirs, each journey is a sacred history of God’s grace. This is an invitation to reflect with your memory in God’s presence. Ask God to help you remember – whether you realized it at the time or not – when God was there for you and with you. Sharper memories may present themselves first – times when you were loved and cared for – or moments of pain, illness, discomfort, or sadness. God can impress his Love on us powerfully in times of trial. As this relies on our ability to remember, it is an exercise that you can return to and add onto several times over the years. Each experience we remember becomes a treasure enriching and enlightening our life and relationship with God and others. Each box helps organize thoughts / memories and reflect on them. Here are presented to you a sample schematic but you will probably need more space; so, feel free to use more paper. May the Holy Trinity reveal to you, bless your sacred history, and lead you on.

 

God’s Sacred History with Me

Prayer to the Holy Spirit: "Come, Holy Spirit, Advocate and Guide, You who are the "Lord and Giver of Life", and enlighten my mind, heart, body, and soul to recall all those moments when You and the Father and the Lord Jesus "touched" my life. Grant me insight and gratitude for all your graces and blessings, both the "pleasant" ones and those that are "less pleasant" and more like "disciplinary moments", both the consolations and the desolation moments of life. Help me see the harmony and purpose of all things in life. Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to You, Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen." 

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 Make a table with columns for yourself in order to catch the details of your experiences of God, those moments when you "felt" touched or blessed or healed or guided or loved by God... etc.


On the left will be column #0 which will list the age you were, or the date or year when the "experience of God" happened.

Moving towards the right, more columns could allow you to catch the details of each of those experiences as follows or with variations along these lines:

  1. What happened, or what would you call this experience?
  2. What was it about, what is the "core" memory?
  3. How did you feel during this experience? OR How did you feel later?
  4. What other person might have played a role?
  5. How did this affect you at the time? 
  6. What lingering effects have remained with you?
  7. How was God "with you"?
  8. How do you feel now?

This is a spiritual exercise to which you can return again and again, pondering the ways of the Lord in your life, and letting the Holy Spirit teach you to recognize the many ways in which the Most Holy Trinity is present, acting, and blessing you in your life. 

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Prayer to the Holy Spirit: "Thank You, Holy Spirit, for you light and guidance, for your help and strength, for your encouragement and consolation, but most of all for your love. Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to You, Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen." 

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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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© 2006-2023 All rights reserved Fr. Gilles Surprenant, Associate Priest of Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montreal  QC
© 2006-2023 Tous droits réservés Abbé Gilles Surprenant, Prêtre Associé de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montréal QC
 

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Thursday, June 1, 2023

Seminar / Workshop on God - Introduction to Prayer - Marriage Preparation Online Meeting "From This Day Forward" - Saturday, June 3rd, 2023 at St. Thomas à Becket - Marriage is a great adventure for LIFE!

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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“From This Day Forward”

Marriage Preparation Course 2023

WORKSHOP 💘 GOD 💘
 LIFE 💘 MARRIAGE 💘 
💘 FAMILY  
💘 PRAYER 💘 TRINITY 💘 SEMINAR 


👇 Link to Fr. Gilles' Power Point Presentation: 👇

👉  Workshop / Seminar "Introduction to Prayer" -
Saturday, June 3rd, 2023
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PDF Version of this Power Point Presentation 


INTRO of Father Gilles Surprenant 
by Bridget Bagshaw, Coordinator 


Father Gilles Surprenant in Capernaum, Galilee, Palestine

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 💘 WORKSHOP ON PRAYER 💘 

"The Trinity" by Andrei Rublev - 1411 A.D.


Russian icon 56" x 45" 

This is a 2-Hour WORKSHOP / SEMINAR 

We'll have actual prayer experiences...

... discussion, couple time, Q&A, & breaks...

Last year, afte we prayed a little with couples, they wanted more. Well, this morning we will spend 3 hours exploring prayer. 

You will have opportunity to express any doubts and ask questions. Let this Workshop / Seminar be an adventure; I am your field guide.

Violence, troubles, dangers threaten humanity. Our human condition causes us to suffer insecurities, fears, doubts, and concerns for the future. We endure the faults of others and dislike admitting our own faults. 

The awesome truth is that our Creator God loves us without limits. God gives us freedom because He designed us for friendship love. It is only in learning to love our Maker back that we will be perfectly happy. We can please others but we cannot “make happy” anyone; it is unfair to even expect a human, other  than Jesus, to try to “make us happy”. 

GOD - REAL? or NOT REAL?

Despite mounds of evidence,

many people are indifferent …

Our choices are:

1. Ignore God

2. Hold God in contempt

3. 💘Respect God as real and cultivate the relationship.

We're off!


WORKSHOP 
💘
 GOD 💘
 LIFE 💘 MARRIAGE 💘 

💘 FAMILY  💘 PRAYER 💘 TRINITY 💘 SEMINAR 


Please join me as we begin with a PRAYER 

OPENING PRAYER 

LED BY FR. GILLES

💘 GOD 💘 LIFE 💘 PRAYER 💘

“Lord, I can’t pray properly. 
I’m weak; I’m human; 
I’m fragile. I’m easily distracted,
taken into thoughts of myself and the world.
But you, Lord, lead me past that.
Help me to pray truly as I am. 

Help me to focus on the Father, the Son,
and You, Holy Spirit,
so that my soul may be opened,
and I can receive the grace that is there
for everyone in prayer. Amen.” 


Prayer published by C. Alan Ames inspired by St. Teresa of Avila

The Warning: Testimonies and Prophecies of the Illumination of Conscience.” By Christine Watkins, Queen of Peace Media, 2020. Sacramento CA

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METHOD: LIKE WINE TASTING 
or LIKE BEER TASTING

OUR METHODOLOGY :

ADULT LEARNING MODEL

OUR OUTLINE - in 4 segments 

 (1) The human prayer impulse (2) Praying in common 
(3) Praying alone (4) Praying as a couple

WITH GOD... WE ARE ALL BEGINNERS...
WE LEARN BEST TOGETHER...

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Living Prayer 

By Anthony of Sourozh, Metropolitan. Living Prayer: The Pocket Library of Spiritual Wisdom. Foreword, p. 5. Darton, Longman & Todd LTD. Kindle Edition. 

Worship to me means a relationship. I used not to be a believer, then one day I discovered God and immediately he appeared to me to be the supreme value and the total meaning of life, but at the same time a person. I think that worship can mean nothing at all to someone for whom there is no object of worship. You cannot teach worship to someone who has not got a sense of the living God; you can teach him to act as if he believed, but it will not be the spontaneous attitude which is real worship. Therefore, as a foreword to this book on prayer, what I would like to convey is my certitude in the personal reality of a God with whom a relationship can be established. 

Then I would ask my reader to treat God as a neighbour, as someone, and value this knowledge in the same terms in which he values a relationship with a brother or a friend. This, I think, is essential. One of the reasons why communal worship or private prayer seem to be so dead or so conventional is that the act of worship, which takes place in the heart communing with God, is too often missing. Every expression, either verbal or in action, may help, but they are only expressions of what is essential, namely, a deep silence of communion. 

We all know in human relationships that love and friendship are deep when we can be silent with someone. As long as we need to talk in order to keep in touch, we can safely and sadly assume that the relationship is still superficial; and so, if we want to worship God, we must first of all learn to feel happy, being silent together with him. This is an easier thing to do than one might think at first; it needs a little time, some confidence and the courage to start. 

Once the Curé d’Ars, a French saint of the eighteenth century, asked an old peasant what he was doing sitting for hours in the church, seemingly not even praying; the peasant replied: ‘I look at him, he looks at me and we are happy together.’ That man had learned to speak to God without breaking the silence of intimacy by words. If we can do that we can use any form of worship. 

If we try to make worship itself out of the words we use, we will get desperately tired of those words, because unless they have the depth of silence, they are shallow and tiresome. But how inspiring words can be once they are backed by silence and are infused with the right spirit: ‘O Lord, open Thou my lips; and my mouth shall show forth thy praise’ (Ps 51:15). 

1* Adaptation of a talk given on the BBC in the ‘Ten to Eight’ programme first broadcast in 1965.

Anthony of Sourozh, Metropolitan. Living Prayer: The Pocket Library of Spiritual Wisdom (pp. 5-6). Darton, Longman & Todd LTD. Kindle Edition. 


PRAYER RESOURCES

👉 "Beginners' PAGE"

👉 Catholic Christian Tools  page

👉 👉 HOME - https://gillessurprenant.blogspot.com/      


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A few additional texts... reflections.... 


Man & Woman both can spend themselves to exhaustion God has a plan …

Husband & Wife praying for each other = “ Spiritual Tag Team

You daily know where each other is, what’s happening, and are

praying for those situations = You’re constantly united...

MATRIMONY = mater + monium = burden of mothering

THE BRIDE the woman God designed to give & nurture life

THE BRIDEGROOM the man God designed to “groom” or “care for” the bride in her giving and nurturing life

Constantly praying for one another…

you constantly call on God to save each other’s life…

We are created in the IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD...

God is an infinite "fire" of life-giving love...

Our "soul" / "spirit" in our "center" is a flame of

God within us... God is infinite... so there is in us

a living, dynamic flame of the infinite....


That is why we are never content with just a taste...

something in us wants to...

eat the whole buffet... drink the whole bottle...

completely consume what we love and desire...

A man wants to love every woman in the world...

A woman wants to love every man in the world...

which is why pornography is so dangerous...

not because sex is bad... no, God made us beautiful...

in us is a flame of the infinite, life-giving love-fire of God...


To touch high tension electricity wires is to "fry" and die...

electric power goes through transformers to make it safe...

Human sexuality must also go through a transformer to be safe...

To look at human beauty from a distance is a torturing fire leading to depression and death...

Marriage is the "transformer" that makes our intimate loving safe and life-giving and it takes place in the presence of God. 

For a detailed exploration of this theme, go to…

“LIVING IN THE IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD”

by Father Ron Rolheiser 

https://vimeo.com/showcase/8489527?page=3   

Father Ron Rolheiser’s website: https://ronrolheiser.com/ 

or see his books - contact:  Samia at   https://theologia.ca/ 

For the remainder of the workshop / seminar, see the Power Point presentation :


👇 Link to Fr. Gilles' Power Point Presentation: 👇



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PERSPECTIVE - Victor Frankl's discovery about who survived and who didn't in the Nazi concentration camps - "Man's Search for Meaning" 

= the freedom we have to "choose" our interior attitude to life 

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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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© 2006-2023 All rights reserved Fr. Gilles Surprenant, Associate Priest of Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montreal  QC
© 2006-2023 Tous droits réservés Abbé Gilles Surprenant, Prêtre Associé de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montréal QC
 

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Seminar / Workshop on God - "Introduction to Prayer" - Marriage Preparation Course "From This Day Forward" - Saturday, April 13th, 2024 at St. Thomas à Becket Parish - Marriage is a great adventure for LIFE! Workshop Seminar 07.6

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from...