Saturday, September 4, 2021

Seminar / Workshop on God and Prayer - Marriage Prep Virtual Meeting via Zoom - September 4th, 2021

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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“From This Day Forward”

Marriage Preparation Course 2021-2022

WORKSHOP ๐Ÿ’˜ GOD ๐Ÿ’˜
 LIFE ๐Ÿ’˜ MARRIAGE ๐Ÿ’˜ 
๐Ÿ’˜ FAMILY  
๐Ÿ’˜ PRAYER ๐Ÿ’˜ TRINITY ๐Ÿ’˜ SEMINAR 



๐Ÿ‘‡ Link to Fr. Gilles' Power Point Presentation: ๐Ÿ‘‡


๐Ÿ‘‰ https://1drv.ms/p/s!Amyv6OjUkKMfkAqNonkbVymKs3vQ?e=QLAZat ๐Ÿ‘ˆ





INTRO of Father Gilles Surprenant 
by Bridget Bagshaw, Coordinator     9:00


Father Gilles Surprenant in Capernaum, Galilee, Palestine

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We are created in the IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD...

God is an infinite "fire" of life-giving love...

Our "soul" / "spirit" in our "center" is a flame of

God within us... God is infinite... so there is in us

a living, dynamic flame of the infinite....


That is why we are never content with just a taste...

something in us wants to...

eat the whole buffet... drink the whole bottle...

completely consume what we love and desire...

A man wants to love every woman in the world...

A woman wants to love every man in the world...

which is why pornography is so dangerous...

not because sex is bad... no, God made us beautiful...

in us is a flame of the infinite, life-giving love-fire of God...


To touch high tension electricity wires is to "fry" and die...

electric power goes through transformers to make it safe...

Human sexuality must also go through a transformer to be safe...

To look at human beauty from a distance is a torturing fire leading to depression and death...

Marriage is the "transformer" that makes our intimate loving safe and life-giving and it takes place in the presence of God. 

For a detailed exploration of this theme, go to…

“LIVING IN THE IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD”

by Father Ron Rolheiser 

https://vimeo.com/showcase/8489527?page=3   

Father Ron Rolheiser’s website: https://ronrolheiser.com/ 

or see his books - contact: Samia at   https://theologia.ca/ 

 ๐Ÿ’˜ WORKSHOP ON PRAYER ๐Ÿ’˜ 

"The Trinity" by Andrei Rublev - 1411 A.D.


Russian icon 56" x 45" 

PRAYER RESOURCES

๐Ÿ‘‰ "Beginners' PAGE"

๐Ÿ‘‰ Catholic Christian Tools  page

๐Ÿ‘‰ ๐Ÿ‘‰ HOME - https://gillessurprenant.blogspot.com/      


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This is a 3-Hour WORKSHOP / SEMINAR 

We'll have actual prayer experiences...

... discussion, couple time, Q&A, & breaks...

Last year, afte we prayed a little with couples, they wanted more. Well, this morning we will spend 3 hours exploring prayer. 

You will have opportunity to express any doubts and ask questions. Let this Workshop / Seminar be an adventure; I am your field guide.

Violence, troubles, dangers threaten humanity. Our human condition causes us to suffer insecurities, fears, doubts, and concerns for the future. We endure the faults of others and dislike admitting our own faults. 

The awesome truth is that our Creator God loves us without limits. God gives us freedom because He designed us for friendship love. It is only in learning to love our Maker back that we will be perfectly happy. We can please others but we cannot “make happy” anyone; it is unfair to even expect a human, other  than Jesus, to try to “make us happy”. 

We're off!


WORKSHOP 
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 GOD ๐Ÿ’˜
 LIFE ๐Ÿ’˜ MARRIAGE ๐Ÿ’˜ 

๐Ÿ’˜ FAMILY  ๐Ÿ’˜ PRAYER ๐Ÿ’˜ TRINITY ๐Ÿ’˜ SEMINAR 


Please join me as we begin with a PRAYER          9:02

OPENING PRAYER 

LED BY FR. GILLES

๐Ÿ’˜ GOD ๐Ÿ’˜ LIFE ๐Ÿ’˜ PRAYER ๐Ÿ’˜

“Lord, I can’t pray properly. 
I’m weak; I’m human; 
I’m fragile. I’m easily distracted,
taken into thoughts of myself and the world.
But you, Lord, lead me past that.
Help me to pray properly. 

Help me to focus on the Father, the Son,
and You, Holy Spirit,
so that my soul can be opened,
and I can receive the grace that is there
for everyone in prayer. Amen.” 


Prayer published by C. Alan Ames inspired by St. Teresa of Avila

The Warning: Testimonies and Prophecies of the Illumination of Conscience.” By Christine Watkins, Queen of Peace Media, 2020. Sacramento CA

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OUR METHODOLOGY :

ANDRAGOGICAL MODEL

METHOD: LIKE WINE TASTING
or LIKE BEER TASTING

OUR OUTLINE - in 4 segments           9:03

 (1) The human prayer impulse (2) Praying in common 
(3) Praying alone (4) Praying as a couple

WITH GOD... WE ARE ALL BEGINNERS...
WE LEARN BEST TOGETHER...

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Living Prayer 

By Anthony of Sourozh, Metropolitan. Living Prayer: The Pocket Library of Spiritual Wisdom. Foreword, p. 5. Darton, Longman & Todd LTD. Kindle Edition. 

Worship to me means a relationship. I used not to be a believer, then one day I discovered God and immediately he appeared to me to be the supreme value and the total meaning of life, but at the same time a person. I think that worship can mean nothing at all to someone for whom there is no object of worship. You cannot teach worship to someone who has not got a sense of the living God; you can teach him to act as if he believed, but it will not be the spontaneous attitude which is real worship. Therefore, as a foreword to this book on prayer, what I would like to convey is my certitude in the personal reality of a God with whom a relationship can be established. 

Then I would ask my reader to treat God as a neighbour, as someone, and value this knowledge in the same terms in which he values a relationship with a brother or a friend. This, I think, is essential. One of the reasons why communal worship or private prayer seem to be so dead or so conventional is that the act of worship, which takes place in the heart communing with God, is too often missing. Every expression, either verbal or in action, may help, but they are only expressions of what is essential, namely, a deep silence of communion. 

We all know in human relationships that love and friendship are deep when we can be silent with someone. As long as we need to talk in order to keep in touch, we can safely and sadly assume that the relationship is still superficial; and so, if we want to worship God, we must first of all learn to feel happy, being silent together with him. This is an easier thing to do than one might think at first; it needs a little time, some confidence and the courage to start. 

Once the Curรฉ d’Ars, a French saint of the eighteenth century, asked an old peasant what he was doing sitting for hours in the church, seemingly not even praying; the peasant replied: ‘I look at him, he looks at me and we are happy together.’ That man had learned to speak to God without breaking the silence of intimacy by words. If we can do that we can use any form of worship. 

If we try to make worship itself out of the words we use, we will get desperately tired of those words, because unless they have the depth of silence, they are shallow and tiresome. But how inspiring words can be once they are backed by silence and are infused with the right spirit: ‘O Lord, open Thou my lips; and my mouth shall show forth thy praise’ (Ps 51:15). 

1* Adaptation of a talk given on the BBC in the ‘Ten to Eight’ programme first broadcast in 1965.

Anthony of Sourozh, Metropolitan. Living Prayer: The Pocket Library of Spiritual Wisdom (pp. 5-6). Darton, Longman & Todd LTD. Kindle Edition. 


For the remainder of the workshop / seminar, see the Power Point presentation :

https://fathergillespages.blogspot.com/2021/10/seminar-workshop-on-god-and-prayer.html


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MY RESOURCES AND CONTACT INFORMATION

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://fathergillespages.blogspot.com/2021/03/beginners-page-how-to-approach-god-how.html

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://abbagilles.blogspot.com/p/catholic-christian-tools.html 

๐Ÿ‘‰ MY HOME PAGE: https://gillessurprenant.blogspot.com/ 

FOR 1 ON 1 with Fr. Gilles - email me:  ๐Ÿ‘‰ fathergilles@gmail.com

Caution: Usefulness of videos and images

There exists a great variety of videos, audio podcasts, images, icons, statues, and other aids to prayer. These only serve to warm up, but the goal of prayer is to pray. Focusing only on material aids is like walking around the pool and maybe putting a toe in, but not actually getting into the pool and getting wet. We need to get wet with God. The gold is you and who you are on the inside. I invite you to join me with this focus on yourself on the inside, which is primarily where we meet God and God meets with us. 

For future reference to resources for prayer: 

MY WEB PAGES

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://fathergillespages.blogspot.com/2021/03/beginners-page-how-to-approach-god-how.html

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://abbagilles.blogspot.com/p/catholic-christian-tools.html 

FOR 1 ON 1 with Fr. Gilles - email me:  ๐Ÿ‘‰ fathergilles@gmail.com


CANADIAN CATHOLIC WEB SITES & TV 

https://www.foryourmarriage.org/10-pointers-for-prayer/ 

https://slmedia.org/ 


AMERICAN CATHOLIC WEB SITES & TV 
(American Catholic TV & Websites are more commercialized)

Explaining the Faith - How to Pray 
Are you aware of all the ways in which you can pray? Father Chris explains vocal prayers, meditation, contemplation, the Liturgy of the Hours, and much more. 
NATIONAL SHRINE OF THE DIVINE MERCY, STOCKBRIDGE, MA YouTube Channel

https://www.ewtn.com/tv 

Power of Prayer - Powerful Video   (94 seconds)

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PERSPECTIVE - Victor Frankl's discovery about who survived and who didn't in the Nazi concentration camps - "Man's Search for Meaning" 

= the freedom we have to "choose" our interior attitude to life 

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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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© 2006-2021 All rights reserved Fr. Gilles Surprenant, Associate Priest of Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montreal  QC
© 2006-2021 Tous droits rรฉservรฉs Abbรฉ Gilles Surprenant, Prรชtre Associรฉ de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montrรฉal QC
 

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Saturday, June 12, 2021

Seminar on God and Prayer - Marriage Prep Virtual Meeting via Zoom - June 12th, 2021

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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 GOD ๐Ÿ’˜ LIFE ๐Ÿ’˜ MARRIAGE ๐Ÿ’˜ FAMILY  ๐Ÿ’˜ PRAYER ๐Ÿ’˜ GOD

 

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INTRO - by Bridget - Who is Father Gilles Surprenant?             (1-2 minutes)

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Father Gilles: This is a SEMINAR / WORKSHOP on: 

 GOD ๐Ÿ’˜ LIFE ๐Ÿ’˜ MARRIAGE ๐Ÿ’˜ FAMILY  ๐Ÿ’˜ PRAYER ๐Ÿ’˜ GOD

Please join me as we begin with a PRAYER   (1-2 minutes)

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OUR METHOD  (6 minutes)

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AUDIO RECORDING - I make an audio recording of our Open Forum. I record our seminar for my own use; however, if any of you are interested, email me and I will send you a link which will give you exclusive access to this and past recordings.

SEMINAR / WORKSHOP in the ADRAGOGICAL METHOD

WITH GOD... WE ARE ALL BEGINNERS... WE LEARN BEST TOGETHER....

YOUR CONTRIBUTIONS TO OUR SEMINAR....

๐Ÿ‘Œ QUESTIONS - ๐Ÿ‘Œ REPORTING - ๐Ÿ‘Œ DIALOGUE - ๐Ÿ‘Œ SHARING BEST PRACTICES

MY CONTRIBUTIONS TO OUR SEMINAR....

I am your FACILITATOR & RESOURCE PERSON 

Caution: Usefulness of videos and images

There exists a great variety of videos, audio podcasts, images, icons, statues, and other aids to prayer. These only serve to warm up, but the goal of prayer is to pray. Focusing only on material aids is like walking around the pool and maybe putting a toe in, but not actually getting into the pool and getting wet. We need to get wet with God. The gold is you and who you are on the inside. I invite you to join me with this focus on yourself on the inside, which is primarily where we meet God and God meets with us. 

For future reference to resources for prayer: 

MY WEB PAGES

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://fathergillespages.blogspot.com/2021/03/beginners-page-how-to-approach-god-how.html

๐Ÿ‘‰ https://abbagilles.blogspot.com/p/catholic-christian-tools.html 

FOR 1 ON 1 with Fr. Gilles - email me:  ๐Ÿ‘‰ fathergilles@gmail.com


CANADIAN CATHOLIC WEB SITES & TV 

https://www.foryourmarriage.org/10-pointers-for-prayer/ 

https://slmedia.org/ 


AMERICAN CATHOLIC WEB SITES & TV 
(American Catholic TV & Websites are more commercialized)

Explaining the Faith - How to Pray 
Are you aware of all the ways in which you can pray? Father Chris explains vocal prayers, meditation, contemplation, the Liturgy of the Hours, and much more. 
NATIONAL SHRINE OF THE DIVINE MERCY, STOCKBRIDGE, MA YouTube Channel

https://www.ewtn.com/tv 

Power of Prayer - Powerful Video   (94 seconds)

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PERSPECTIVE - Victor Frankl's discovery about who survived and who didn't in the Nazi concentration camps - "Man's Search for Meaning" 

= the freedom we have to "choose" our interior attitude to life 

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The 2 SCENARIOS ??                      (2 minutes)

? SCENARIO # 1 - Absence of God = Without God we run the Risk of power politics in love, marriage & family

entrenching in one's fortress VS one's spouse as an adversary or competitor 

?? SCENARIO # 2 - Presence of God = With God we can open ourselves to Him as the Source of love, marriage & family

recognizing one another's dignity as coming from God = we can relax and respect one another as companions on our life journey....


๐Ÿ‘ We are opting here for Scenario # 2 - We make an act of faith that God is present. We'll begin with a practical experience of prayer. Don't be afraid, it will be non-intrusive. Naturally, you are always free to conduct your own interior prayer.

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A LITTLE BACKGROUND TO PRAYER 

The Dimensions of Prayer... & Obstacles....      (6 minutes)

Prayer is communication with God. Now, God has all the time in the universe. He is not in a hurry. He cannot visit with me if I am full of noise, when I go around in circles and obsess over my thoughts and feelings, when I let my anxiety about many things keep me captive, if I am full of my importance and what I want, or if I carry a bias of contempt for God or his Church, or whenever I am impatient and want results now. These are only some of the obstacles that get in the way of intimacy with God. All these dispositions of temperament and mood are not bad or evil; actually they are launchpads for prayer. Here are some helpful attitudes to keep in mind. God is always glad to help us practice these. 

SILENCE - If we remain plugged into devices all day long we cannot experience silence which we need to notice God "present" and "moving" within us.

PEACE - If we obsess over our thoughts & feelings we end up on a merry-go-round and we risk talking only to ourselves, oblivious to others as well as to God.

HUMILITY - As long as I want MY WAY, and want it NOW, I close the door to others as well as to God, but He respects my freedom, lets me follow my own path, and waits for me to be open and ready.

GRATITUDE - I can let go of any contempt I may feel for God or his Church by calling to mind the many reasons I actually have for being grateful for my life, for everyone, and for everything in my life. Even my trials and challenges provoke growth and resilience. It does me good to recognize God as the Source of all good. 

PRAISE - God is good. It does me good to recognize God as the Source of all good. By thanking and praising Him in prayer I admit the TRUTH and get into SYNC with God. 

PATIENCE - To encounter God, who remains mysterious, I must be patient, that is, I must seek Him, wait for Him, and live in hopeful anticipation of "the God who comes".

๐Ÿ‘‡ LET US NOW APPLY THESE ATTITUDES ๐Ÿ‘‡ 

INSTRUCTIONS 

I'll read the Antiphon and I invite all of you to repeat it. Then one by one we can participate by slowly reading one of the verses. As we wait for someone to read, let the silence be a gift, an opportunity to relax in the presence of God, and to let the words penetrate us with their meaning. We do our little part, and God does his part deep within each of us, bringing his peace. 

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๐Ÿ‘‰ PRAYER EXERCISE # 1 - Psalm 95 (Easter) ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

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Antiphon: Christ the Lord is RISEN, ALLELUIA!

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Come, let us sing to the Lord and shout with joy to the Rock who saves us. 
Let us approach him with praise and thanksgiving and sing joyful songs to the Lord.

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The Lord is God, the mighty God, the great king over all the gods. 
He holds in his hands the depths of the earth and the highest mountains as well. 
He made the sea; it belongs to him, the dry land, too, for it was formed by his hands.

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Come, then, let us bow down and worship, 
bending the knee before the Lord, our maker, 
For he is our God and we are his people, the flock he shepherds.

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Today, listen to the voice of the Lord: Do not grow stubborn,
as your fathers did in the wilderness, 
when at Meriba and Massah they challenged me and provoked me, 
although they had seen all of my works.

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Forty years I endured that generation. 
I said, “They are a people whose hearts go astray and they do not know my ways. 
So I swore in my anger, “They shall not enter into my rest.”

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Glory to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit: 
as it was in the beginning, is now, and will be for ever, Amen

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Antiphon: Christ the Lord is RISEN, ALLELUIA!

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๐Ÿ‘‰ PRAYER EXERCISE # 2 - SILENCE ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

A HUMBLE GIFT OF SILENCE 
(2 minute instruction + 4 minutes of silence) 

Silence is a good companion to reading lines from the Word of God, the Bible. Here are some simple instructions for a few minutes of silent prayer together. I invite you to give yourself permission to sit for a few minutes, relax, and just breathe. I'll let you know when the time is up after a few minutes; so don't worry about the duration.

Human beings everywhere pray in silence – it's the most natural thing to do. You can close your eyes now or at any point during these brief instructions and relax.   

1)      If you are already familiar with God or Jesus; have a good visit with Him. 

If you are not on familiar terms with God or Jesus, let this be an introduction. He desires a personal relationship with you: He always respects your free will.

2)      You get to decide how open you want to be with the Creator & Saviour….

3)      Sit comfortably, hands resting on knees…  Back & head straight… & relax…

4)      Be still… feel free to adjust your body to relax, be comfortable & alert…

5)      In the silence, notice your interior landscape like a drive in the country…

6)      If all is quiet and peaceful, lovely… focus on a kind image of God or Jesus


7)      
If all is not quiet, notice the noise, words, images… this is part of you... 
just let it go... let yourself enjoy the ride; focus on a kind image of God or Jesus

8)      "God our Creator... here we are... how awesome is your Creation in which we live and move and have our being... thank You. We offer You now a few moments in silence... You are welcome to visit with us within our spirits."

9)      Now you’ll have a few minutes of silence….

 

Resume.... 

PARAMETERS for our OPEN FORUM            (3 minutes)

 ON :

 GOD ๐Ÿ‘ˆPRAYER ๐Ÿ‘‰ LIFE - MARRIAGE - FAMILY


SETTING THE STAGE 


FOCUS:  God is all about relationship and personal communication. The whole Bible shows God inviting people to a personal relationship. God reveals Himself in more dramatic ways to people to whom He wants to give a special mission. For most of us God chooses to reveal Himself more gently, in the depths of our being. 

1)      Have you given any thought to what has been your experience of God? your experience of prayer? your experience of spiritual things?

2)      Are you familiar or comfortable with your interior life?

3)      
Perhaps you’ve never really thought much about your interior life?

4)      
Do you find the thought of your interior life challenging or frightening?

5)      
Where are you with regards to your interiority at this point in your life?

6)      
Have you and your fiancรฉ shared about your respective interior life?

WE LIVE AS - ๐Ÿ‘‰ INDIVIDUALS - IN OUR ๐Ÿ‘‰ LIFE 

= ๐Ÿ‘‰ INDIVIDUAL PRAYER - FOR OUR ๐Ÿ‘‰ LIFE 

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WE LIVE AS - ๐Ÿ‘‰ COUPLES - IN OUR ๐Ÿ‘‰ MARRIAGE 

= ๐Ÿ‘‰ COUPLE PRAYER - FOR OUR ๐Ÿ‘‰ MARRIAGE 

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WE LIVE AS - ๐Ÿ‘‰ COMMUNITY - IN OUR ๐Ÿ‘‰ FAMILY 

๐Ÿ‘‰ COMMUNITY PRAYER - FOR OUR ๐Ÿ‘‰ FAMILY 


OPEN FORUM ON   

(35-45 minutes)

SHARING OUR EXPERIENCES, CHALLENGES,
ISSUES, BEST PRACTICES, QUESTIONS....

Q & A 


OPEN FORUM ON  

 GOD ๐Ÿ‘ˆ PRAYER ๐Ÿ‘‰ LIFE - MARRIAGE - FAMILY

 GOD ๐Ÿ‘ˆ ๐Ÿ‘‰ PRAYER - IS NEEDED IN 3 DIMENSIONS LIKE OUR LIFE

This is your Open Forum.
Please share your best practices, experience, challenges, questions, doubts.... 
 


WRAP-UP: Feedback – Questions – Suggestions               (5 minutes)



GO TO CATHOLIC CHRISTIAN TOOLS PAGE



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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so may you be pleased to find here a variety of helps to the life of faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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© 2006-2021 All rights reserved Fr. Gilles Surprenant, Associate Priest of Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montreal  QC
© 2006-2021 Tous droits rรฉservรฉs Abbรฉ Gilles Surprenant, Prรชtre Associรฉ de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montrรฉal QC
 

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Seminar / Workshop on God - "Introduction to Prayer" - Marriage Preparation Course "From This Day Forward" - Saturday, November 2nd, 2024 at St. John Fisher Parish - Marriage is a great adventure for LIFE! Workshop Seminar 08.3

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from...